And the winner is…

December 18th, 2009 — 4:10pm

Thanks to everyone who has emailed me and left comments to nominate people for the Advent book giveaway!  After careful consideration, drumroll please…the winner is… Tia Lynn!

One of the reasons I wrote this book was to give people a hopeful and life-giving perspective on what it means to follow Jesus.  Tia, from what I can tell, your friend Maura has found her way into God’s story but could use some help finding abundant life in there and enough courage to push back on the fear that’s keeping her captive.

Especially as we celebrate this season of Advent, we celebrate and remember that we have been given “good news of great joy for ALL people” (Luke 2:10).  If Maura wants her family to come to walk in the way of the Christ child, I truly believe there is nothing more powerful or persuasive than the example of a life lived in hope, grounded in peace, and drenched in love.  The Gospel is not fearful news; it is the best news this world has ever received.  The light of Christ has come into the world, and the darkness has not overcome it.

In whatever small way possible, I pray the Spirit can use The Boundary-Breaking God to bring your friend Maura the hope that is ours at Christmas and year-round.  (And I hope you enjoy your copy, too!)

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Out of the Mouths of Babes

December 17th, 2009 — 4:04pm

There is nothing that makes me more weepy than a children’s Christmas program…and that’s saying a lot, because I’m not that person who cries at movies or heartstring-pulling commercials, or at much of anything, really.  But give me two minutes in a chapel filled with children singing Christmas songs and my eyes tear up every time.

I think it’s the combination of the general hope I tend to feel during Advent with the message being heralded by such wide-eyed and hopeful innocence.  You never see a Kindergartener rolling his eyes at the idea of light coming into the world or peace being possible, because he absolutely think it is.  Kindergarteners think, in fact, that there IS light and peace in the world, and so it’s the most natural thing in the world to sing about it.

For those of you who have not attended any Christmas programs this week (and for those of you like me who believe when it comes to Christmas programs, truly the more the merrier),  here are the money quotes I heard the past two days that got my eyes to watering.  (It’s not surprising that both of these are inspired by Isaiah 11, which is one of THE best chapters of Scripture.)  Go ahead and imagine a chapel full of children’s voices when you read them…it’ll do your heart some good.

Compliments of my second grader and her classmates, I heard joyful clapping to these beautiful words:

“Dance and sing for the Lord shall be with us!  Glory, Halleluia!

Peace and justice soon shall be with us!  Glory, Halleluia!

Clap your hands and sing, Glory, Halleluia!

Joyful voices ring, Glory, Halleluia!

Wolf and lamb shall rest together

Calf and lion shall join as friends

Peace shall come to all the nations

Come, O Savior, Come!”

And the Gospel given to us by a rafters-full set of smiling Kindergarteners:

“You be the lion strong and wild, I’ll be the lamb, meek and mild.

We’ll live together, happily, and THAT’S how it ought to be!”

(During that last line they would all emphatically swing their arms across their chests, just so we could SEE they expect the world to be this way.)

Advent Lord, grant that we would be able to sing as openly and joyfully as do your youngest family members.  Give us the wisdom to hope for your peace and justice to be made real among us, and to walk faithfully toward your future where lions lay together peacefully with lambs.  And may all God’s people say…Amen.

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Win a free copy of my book!

December 14th, 2009 — 10:21am

Happy Advent, everyone!  As it’s Advent, I’m in a particularly festive mood, and I’d like to celebrate by giving away a free copy of my book.  But of course, it wouldn’t be fun just to give it away without any fanfare.  It’s Advent, after all- the season of angels blurting trumpets of joy and pregnant women bursting out into song and declarations of peace on earth.  So, here’s the scoop on how you can score yourself a free copy of The Boundary-Breaking God.

I’m really appreciative of all the wonderful feedback I’ve gotten on the book thus far.  One of the comments I’ve heard over and over again is, “So many people need to read this!” or “I really wish my friend/pastor/professor/family member _________ could hear this.”  Well, here’s your chance to spread the message!  Who do you think most needs to hear this message of hope and promise?  Who most needs to hear the story of God as one of expansion, inclusion and hopeful celebration?  And by who, I don’t mean broad generalizations like “college freshmen” or “disillusioned Christians.”  Be specific, as in “my friend Jim who lives in Ohio” or “my Aunt Rhoda who thinks God is a dictatorial sadist.”  (If you have an Aunt Rhoda who thinks that, actually, I’ll do you one better- give me her number and I will call her up this very afternoon.)

So- give it some thought.   Then leave the name of the person you think most needs to read this book in the comments and make your case as to why.  The person with the most creative/compelling/intriguing answer will score two autographed copies of the book- one, of course, will be sent to the person nominated (complete with a personalized note from me- because I am nothing if not intent on the highest level of customer service) and one will be sent to the nominator to keep.  I’ll post the name of the winner this Friday at noon.

Let the nominations begin!

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I love Advent songs

December 10th, 2009 — 2:15pm

Every year from Thanksgiving to Epiphany, my husband listens to nothing but Christmas music.  I will get into my car and find the presets to a Christmas music station.  The minute he steps in the door after work, he turns it on- this year using some app through his iPhone that works through our computer and plays through our sound system (or as I like to say, by magic).  Selections range from traditional (Nat King Cole) to sentimental (The Lettermen) to experimental (Eddie Vedder), but whatever the flavor, Christmas bells are always jingling around here.

We like to do it up right at Journey, too.  I know some of my more mainline friends think it’s cheating to sing Christmas songs in church before Christmas Eve (you know, because you are supposed to have to wait to sing them) but I disagree.  The kind of waiting we are doing at Advent is hopeful waiting.  We are waiting for a baby to be born, and not just any baby, but One who will bring the kind of light that will shine like the dawn and guide our feet into the way of peace.  And what, may I ask, do we do when expecting a baby?  We celebrate.  We shower people, even before the baby arrives.

Or, think of it this way.  What do you do when you are looking forward to seeing your favorite band in concert?  Why, you spend the whole week listening to their songs, all the way ’till you roll on up into the parking lot with your favorite song now on repeat, giddily dancing around, eager to hear their opening number. 

Hopeful waiting gives us permission to sing about that for which we wait– it encourages us, even, because what better sign of hope is there than joyful singing?  This coming third Sunday of Advent is generally known as Gaudete Sunday, the Sunday of joy.  It’s the day we light the candle on the Advent wreath that is a shade brighter than all the others.  Its lighter color symbolizes the happiness we feel when we are nearing our concert destination- we know the thing we are waiting for is coming near, and we can’t help but sing about it.

So if you happen to join us at Journey this Sunday, no need to wonder why we are singing Joy to the World already.  We like to practice Advent hopeful waiting, Christmas carols and all.

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Conspiring for Good this Advent

December 1st, 2009 — 11:13am

So it’s officially December now, which means many of us are already feeling stressed by the very long list of things we need to do over the next 24 days as we get ready to host family at our homes, cook Christmas dinner, exchange presents, and attend approximately eight zillion holiday soirees.  Those of you who are fellow pastors are also in overdrive planning for Advent and Christmas Eve services and perhaps even some children’s Christmas programs.   The calendar can begin to look downright menacing.

I’ve tried to make a concerted effort over the past four or five years to change some holiday habits that created more stress than Christmas spirit.  (The first thing I crossed off was sending out Christmas cards- so don’t expect one!)  In my family we’ve had many discussions of how to make this month what we really want it to be about- hope, and love, and spending time with family, and laughing around a table filled with good food; the insanely beautiful idea that light has been birthed into the world through a baby in a manger, whose unfathomable love for us will reconcile the whole world.  And the simple truth is, none of these things requires purchasing a mound of material gifts.  So over the past few years we’ve tried to find ways to make this Advent season more about hope and less about hype.  We have slowly pulled away from the idea that Christmas is primarily about buying all your children’s wish list items or buying your family members a lot of things they probably don’t need or want anyway.   We still buy some gifts, but we try to find ways to make them meaningful- ways to spend time together, experiences to share, homemade items done with love if not always skill.

At home and at my church, Journey, we have asked our children what we celebrate at Christmas, and they all respond proudly that it’s Jesus’ birthday.  “I wonder what Jesus would like for us to get him for his birthday?” we ask.   Last year, when I asked them that, they answered by saying things like, “To give love to people who need love” and “To make sure everybody stays warm this winter” and “To give food to people who don’t have enough.”   They–and we–know what kind of presents Jesus would like for his birthday.  This Christmas, why don’t we give them?  Why don’t we take some of that money we would usually spend on ourselves or another sweater our kids don’t need, and spend it on something that captures the true heart of Christmas- spreading the light of the world in tangible ways to those around us.

Our friends at Advent Conspiracy feel the same way about the holiday season, so a few years ago they decided to spread this message around, certain that there were others like them (like us!) who wanted to reclaim the hope of Christmas.  If you’ve never heard of Advent Conspiracy, click the link and watch the video.  Perhaps it will inspire you to find ways to conspire for good this Advent as we enter into the season of light.

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Small Acts of Kindness Really Do Change the World

November 19th, 2009 — 2:04pm

On a more positive note, here’s another thing I was struck by in this article on Islamism.  Sometimes, the action that began to move them away from extremism was surprising, and often subtle.  And it reminds all of us that sometimes our kindness can in fact change a person’s life…even someone as hardened as Usman Raja.

Usman, for one, finally stopped wanting to be a suicide bomber because of the kindness of an old white man.  Usman’s mother had moved in next door to an elderly man called Tony, who was known in the neighbourhood as a spiteful, nasty grump. One day, Usman was teaching his little brother to box in the garden when he noticed the old man watching him from across the fence. “I used to box when I was in the Navy,” he said. He started to give them tips and before long, he was building a boxing ring in their shed.

Tony died not long before 9/11, and Usman was sent to help clear out his belongings. In Tony’s closet, he found a present wrapped and ready for his little brother’s birthday: a pair of boxing gloves. “And I thought – that is humanity right there. That’s an aspect of the divine that’s in every human being. How can I want to kill people like him? How can I call him kaffir?”

 I love that, prior to this exchange, Tony was known as a grump.  He was not only being kind to Usman; Usman and his brother were also being kind to Tony, giving his life meaning by allowing him to teach them something he knew well.  (This reminded me of the movie “Gran Turino,” actually- which you really ought to see, if you haven’t already.)  The simple practice of caring for one another will always be the most radical action.

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The Postmodern Crisis of Identity

November 18th, 2009 — 1:24pm

I’m continuing my observations from the article on Islamism I posted yesterday by saying a brief word about identity. I say brief because honestly, this issue is so critical that you could read a shelf full of books on the matter. As usual in the blogosphere, I’ll reach for the most readily identifiable and simplified argument.

The threat of totalizing fundamentalism (fundamentalism that seeks not only to hold its own beliefs but force it onto others) is in many ways a crisis of identity. I was so struck by the stories of these Western-educated Brits who became jihadists because they could not find a sense of belonging anywhere else.  This has always been the difficult reality for immigrant children- how do you straddle two worlds? How do you hold onto the world of your parents, who, though living in a new country, still operate with the same values and cultural traditions they did in their home country, while at the same time growing up as children of a society with an entirely different set of values and cultural traditions? You belong in neither place.

From the story of Usama Hassan:
When he was 13, he joined an Islamic fundamentalist organisation called Jimas. At big sociable conferences every weekend, they were told: you don’t feel at home in Britain, but you can’t go “home” to a country you have never visited. So we have a third identity for you – a pan-national Islamism that knows no boundaries and can envelop you entirely.

It sounds familiar. This is the identity I hear shouted by young Islamists throughout the East End: I might sound like you, but I am nothing like you. I am Other. I belong elsewhere – in a place that does not yet exist, but that I will create, with my fists and my fury.

Jimas told their members they were part of a persecuted billion, being blown up and locked down across the world. “It was a bit like a gang,” he says.

And from the third section of the article:
As children and teenagers, the ex-jihadis felt Britain was a valueless vacuum, where they were floating free of any identity.

Ed Husain, a former leader of HT, says: “On a basic level, we didn’t know who we were. People need a sense of feeling part of a group – but who was our group?” They were lost in liberalism, beached between two unreachable identities – their parents’, and their country’s. They knew nothing of Pakistan or Saudi Arabia or the other places they were constantly told to “go home” to by racists.

Yet they felt equally shut out of British or democratic identity. From the right, there was the brutal nativist cry of “Go back where you came from!” But from the left, there was its mirror-image: a gooey multicultural sense that immigrants didn’t want liberal democratic values and should be exempted from them. Again and again, they described how at school they were treated as “the funny foreign child”, and told to “explain their customs” to the class. It patronised them into alienation.

“Nobody ever said – you’re equal to us, you’re one of us, and we’ll hold you to the same standards,” says Husain. “Nobody had the courage to stand up for liberal democracy without qualms. When people like us at [Newham] College were holding events against women and against gay people, where were our college principals and teachers, challenging us?”

Without an identity, they created their own. It was fierce and pure and violent, and it admitted no doubt.

To my surprise, the ex-jihadis said their rage about Western foreign policy – which was real, and burning – emerged only after their identity crises, and as a result of it. They identified with the story of oppressed Muslims abroad because it seemed to mirror the oppressive disorientation they felt in their own minds. Usman Raja, a bluff, buff boxer who begged to become a suicide bomber in the mid-1990s, tells me: “Your inner life is chaotic and you feel under threat the whole time. And then you’re told by Islamists that life for Muslims everywhere is chaotic and under threat. It becomes bigger than you. It’s about the world – and that’s an amazing relief. The answer isn’t inside your confused self. It’s out there in the world.”

These issues bring to mind (at least) two very big questions for me as a pastor, and for the church at large:

1.  How can we help people form life-giving and centered identities in an increasingly diverse world?  How can we create sanctuary spaces of identity for people?  (That is, spaces that feel like home and that love and accept people rather than isolate people.)  These are  internal questions,  related to the inner-workings of our own faith communities and faith identities.

2.  How can we live peacefully in a pluralist world without losing our own particularity?  How can we hold our specific Christian identity in a way that does not create dualistic enemies?  Does our conviction have to come at the price of a ghettoizing isolation?  These are external questions, dealing with our relationships to/with/for the world.

Because as different as a suburban middle class youth is from a child of immigrant parents, I get the feeling that this dual-world-straddling is happening almost everywhere these days in varying forms.  These are questions with which we’re all going to have to grapple.

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Fundamentalism is always the same

November 17th, 2009 — 4:00pm

This is the best article on Islamism I have read in recent years. As a warning, it is incredibly long. As an encouragement, it is worth every bit of the time it takes to read it. It is the story of three ex-Islamist jihadists and one radically loyal Islamist, all of whom were raised in Great Britain, educated in Western schools, and most of them raised as only marginally religious. The article’s author wanted to know how-and why- these kind of men could become violent jihadists, so he wanted to hear their stories.

The crisis of Islamism seems to me such a microcosm of many of our world’s most pressing matters, and certainly of our country’s. I just may spend a few posts unpacking some of these one by one. To start, there is such an incredible similarity between all forms of fundamentalism. I’m sure fundamentalist Christians would balk at a comparison between their firmly-held beliefs and that of an extremist jihadist, but listen to either of them for five minutes and they are giving the same speech, using the same arguments, drawing the same conclusions under gods of different names. If you’ve ever been in a room with a fundamentalist of any religion, listen for parallels in this article excerpt. This was in the section regarding Anjem Choudhary, the one Islamist profiled in the article:

Taking any part of the Koran as metaphor will, [Choudhary] warns, cause the text to turn to dust in their hands. “I can’t pick and choose what I like from the scripture. This is not strawberry season, where you can pick your own strawberries. You abide by whatever Allah brought in the final revelation with the example of the Prophet. And if there’s something that you don’t like, then you need to correct your own emotions and desires to make sure they’re in line with the sharia.”

If I had a nickel…

Fundamentalism in every religion has the potential to bring about unthinkable harm and to threaten the very essence of the religion it claims. When you put the word “holy” in the title of any book, you are asking its readers to supply some form of allegiance to its contents. How they see that allegiance- or more specifically, how they interpret its contents and make conclusions about the allegiances they infer- can either make the world a more beautiful place (“Love one another as I have loved you”) or a place of sheer terror. The minute those of us in any religion believes our holy book to be above this kind of terrifying misinterpretation is the minute the bell tolls with sinister foreshadowing.

I think the problem is that fundamentalism invariably stems from fear that leads quickly to hatred. If a religious person feels threatened, then out comes the witch hunt to demonize anyone who believes differently. It is a terrifyingly strange way to prove your position. I’m not sure how many events in world history one must learn before realizing that this kind of proactive-belligerent-defense only ends up killing people. And any sane person will tell you that none of the world’s religions consider killing people as a sign of spiritual maturity. At the very least, this kind of isolating, us vs. them rhetoric damages our ability to see God’s image in one another…and if you can’t recognize that, what’s to keep you from attacking that person? How can you honor the sanctity of that person’s life?

The tragic irony of fundamentalism is that those who claim to be fundamentalists also claim to care MOST about their religion (they can judge these things and you can’t), but their fundamentalist beliefs are often the least effective at embodying their religion’s core convictions. And this is to say nothing about the public relations debacle they are causing. There are no worse poster children for religion than fundamentalists.

The way we read our holy books matters. It absolutely matters, as it’s literally a matter of life and death.

From the story in section I of the article, subtitled “The Imam”:
(Usama Hassan) says the 7/7 bombings (in 2005 in London’s subway system) detonated a theological bomb in his mind: “How could this be justified? I began to wonder if parts of the Koran are actually metaphor, and parts of the Koran were actually just revealed for their time: seventh-century Arabia.”

Once the foundation stone of literalism was broken, he had to remake the concepts that had led him to Islamism one-by-one. “Jihad has many levels in Islam – you have the internal struggle to be the best person you can be. But all we had been taught is military jihad. Today I regard any kind of campaigning for truth, for justice, as a type of Jihad.” He signed up to the pacifist Movement for the Abolition of War. He redefined martyrdom as anybody who died in an honourable cause. “There were martyrs on 9/11,” he says. “They were the firefighters – not the hijackers.”

Seeing the reality of the destruction in London in 2005 is what made Usama Hassan begin to question the radicalized, militarized, totalizing version of his own religion. Renouncing the literalism of the Koran saved his faith (he’s now a moderate Muslim) and saved lives.

If we are people who read a holy book, we would be wise to listen to our harshest critics, and to look with open eyes at the reality of the kind of world our religion is creating. In so doing we may just save our faith, and we may just save the world from undue violence.

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Sunday on Doug Pagitt Radio

November 13th, 2009 — 12:13pm

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Doug Pagitt will be hosting me on his radio show this Sunday at 10:15am to talk with me about my book. You can listen here as well as listen to archived shows. Hope you’ll tune in!

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Thanks!

November 11th, 2009 — 1:03pm

full house

Thanks to everyone who came out for my book release party, and a huge thanks to everyone who helped plan it/host it/photograph it/make it a fantastically fun evening!

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